single mom in the city

I understand taking care of children.  But I don’t like to do it by myself.  I’m really good at being by myself — as long as I can be with HIM for awhile and HE’S helping me with the kids. But I don’t like the idea of taking care of three children by myself for an extended period of time — and you know, I’m flying solo for the next two weeks.  I know you don’t feel sorry for me.  Why should you?  How about the fact that I work full-time, cook, clean and all that.  No?  You suspect I have help like Angelina or one of those coddled stars?  Nope, I don’t.  OK then. I’m solo. I get no breaks.  Unless the break is going out of your mind.  So how do you raise kids by YOURSELF without going out of your mind?